Monday, September 6, 2010


The other day, I was walking across my apartment complex, and I passed a group of young girls (probably ages 6-9) standing around by the playground. As I walked by, I caught a snippet of their conversation. It went something like this:

Girl #1: "Should we play on the swings first or go to the big hill?" (By the way, there are no big hills in my complex. I'm not sure what they were talking about).

Girl #2: "Maybe we should swing first, because we'll want to spend more time at the big hill."

Girl #3: "But that's boring!"

The debate was still going strong when I passed out of earshot. I had to smile as I thought of the dilemma of these young girls, and laughed to myself, thinking, "Oh, the decisions of a seven-year-old. They have no idea. If only life were still that simple."

Then I realized something: we often think of our current situation as being SO difficult, when in reality life has a tendency to continue offering more complex problems to solve as time goes on. Once we've gone through something, it's tempting to look back on others and over-simplify the difficulty of their decision.

But, here's the thing: our current situation IS difficult. It's only in hindsight, when we've mastered a particular skill set or solved a particular problem, that it seems "so simple." For those young girls, it was a big problem, and they are developing essential skills that they will build on for the rest of their lives. By the same token, each of us is faced with problems, decisions, and trials that equip us for the increasing complexity of life. So, here's to the small decisions that lead us to the big ones. May we embrace the learning process.


Robyn said...

Choices are not always easy to make and sometimes we make the process harder then it needs to be. I'm just glad I have the Lord on my side to walk me through the steps, even if sometimes it feels like I am doing by myself. The great thing is we never are alone! Choices make us the people we are today.

Paul and Susan said...

What a good perspective on difficulties. Thanks for sharing, I needed that!